<s>[INST] Hi dr I m 34 married 4 yrs back. I dont get aroused my penis does not get eraction not once in a day except in the morning i.e. morning wood. Generally after 10 days I get the feel to have sex. Sex thoughts come into my mind but still my penis does not eract untill I start foreplay but as soon as my thoughts are diverted I lose eraction. I cant keep up my penis eract even for 1 min. I have to start sex right after I get eraction. I want to know whether I m suffering from ED or something else and what are the causes and cure for my problem. plz help me. [/INST] DearWe understand your concernsI went through your details. Please do understand that most of the erectile dysfunction problem are due to stress and anxiety and obsession. In your case too, I suspect the same because you do have erection in the morning. The details you gave in the query are not enough to diagnose your anxiety problem. You may consult a psychological counselor or sexologist who will advise you more on this aspect.If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL.  Make sure that you include every minute details possible. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.Good luck. </s>