if you can choose , will you marry a foreigner or a Chinese ?   why ? Did tom pop the question ?   not yet . But I wonder if I can get my parents ’ consent .   let me guess , your parents want you to marry a Chinese man , right ?   you are right . It is giving me a real headache . I feel like I ’ m between a rock and a hard place .   I used to have the same problem when I was with my ex . 