I hear you and James are engaged at last .   Yes , we are .   When are you getting married ?   In the spring .   Oh , lovely.Where ' s the wedding going to be ?   Well .. we're not sure yet , probably in St.Albans .   Oh , yes , your parents live there , don't they ?   Yes , that's right .   Where are you going to live after you're married ?   We're going to buy a flat or a small house somewhere in South London . 