What upsets you ?   My parents called . As usual , they reminded me again that I should have a plan to marry by my late 20s . Easier said then done . Who should I marry ? I have no time to go on a date .   It is not your mother finding one for you ?   I will find one myself , of course . I ’ m a modern girl .   Perhaps you can try the three minutes date , the latest type .   You mean dozens of the opposite sex meet each other for three minutes in a dimly bar serving alcohol , I hate that idea .   No , there is an updated virgin , three minutes video date . I know an online dating website providing such service with a microphone and webcam , you can sigh for it . You can be face-to-face with a guy talking for maximum three minutes .   I don ’ t think it makes sense . Three minutes is such a short time . 