Do you think chinese families have changed much in the last 50 years ?   I think families everywhere have changed a lot in the last 5 decades .   What do you think is the biggest change ?   Well , in the past , three or four generations would live together under the same roof . Nowadays , living in the same city as one's relatives is becoming rare .   That's true . You know , some husbands and wives don't even live in the same city any more .   Would you consider having your parents live with you when they get older ?   I guess I'm a bit old-fashioned . I'd rather have my parents live with me than live in a retirement room .   That's very respectable , but I could never live with my parents . I usually only see them at our christmas celebration — and that's enough !   How about your other siblings ? Do they spend a lot of time with your parents ?   Two of my sisters still live at home , even though they have already graduated from university and have good jobs . They enjoy spending their free time with my parents . I guess in that respect , I'm the black sheep of the family .   I see . Do your parents ever ask you to come home to visit them more often ? 