have you adapted to the lifestyle in China ?   yeah , almost . But there is one thing .   what ?   I still wonder what privacy meant for Chinese people . I don't mean to say that there's no privacy in China , but ...   what is it ?   some of my Chinese colleagues just share their personal stories in front of others .   that makes you feel uncomfortable ?   yeah . we never do that in a public office .   perhaps that's because we hold different ideas about privacy .   i have felt that . One day when i was in a queue , reading a newspaper story , the man behind me peered through my shoulder and stared at the newspaper I was holding .   well , that's not rare . I've seen people reading at others ' newspaper while taking a metro or a bus .   just stare at the newspaper holding in the hands of the one next to him ?   yeah .   Oh , I'm shocked . 