Emily , are you getting rushed by a sorority ?   More than one . I think the count is now three , if I remember correctly .   Wow . I'm getting rushed too , but just one . Are you thinking of joining any of them ?   I don't know . I know there are advantages to joining , but I'm not much into group stuff .   The guys I've talked to say that the activities that go on in a frat house can be a little distracting depending on the group .   I think I'm going to decline . I just prefer to do my own thing .   Were your parents involved in that kind of thing at all when they went to school ? 