You are married to a foreigner , huh ? So what ’ s it like ?   Well , the first year of our marriage , we had great difficulty getting along . The things that are important to me are not important to him . We had a lot of conflicts .   Yeah , I know what you mean . The first year of any marriage is difficult for all couples , not to mention two people from different cultures .   And now we have a two-year-old boy . We ’ re very happy that he ’ s healthy and smart .   Oh , so he ’ s half Chinese and half American . That ’ s unusual . What languages does he speak , then ?   Right now he speaks mostly Chinese , and he can say a few English words . But he will learn .   What does he look like ? Can people tell ? 