Hi Mary , how's it going ?   Well , last night I had a big argument with Ann .   Terrible . It must be something serious . You two are such close friends .   Now that I look back at it , it wasn't that big a deal . I shouldn't have lost my temper .   Really ? What happened ?   It's just we've been planning to go the beach for a while , and we decided we could both make it this weekend . Then out of nowhere she called me up , said her boyfriend had made plans and that she need to cancel the trip . I was so angry when she told me that I said she didn't care about our friendship at all .   That's pretty harsh .   I know , but I was so upset . I mean , come on ! Does she have to do everything her boyfriend says ?   You know she probably feels just as bad . 