Man , I ’ m freaking out ! You gotta help me !   Whoa , whoa , take it easy , relax . Geez , you ’ re sweating like a pig ! What ’ s going on ?   I can ’ t go through with this ! I just can ’ t ! I ’ m not ready for marriage ! What was I thinking ? I ’ m only thirty five years old ! I ’ Ve got my entire life ahead of me , adventures waiting ! I can ’ t settle down yet ! 