if you can choose , will you marry a foreigner or a Chinese ?   why ? Did tom pop the question ?   not yet . But I wonder if I can get my parents ’ consent .   let me guess , your parents want you to marry a Chinese man , right ?   you are right . It is giving me a real headache . I feel like I ’ m between a rock and a hard place .   I used to have the same problem when I was with my ex .   oh , how did you deal with it ?   I just let it go and continued dating with my Korean boyfriend . But finally we broke up .   oh , it ’ s a pity . What was the matter ?   simple . We had personality clashes and there were too many cultural differences .   like what ?   he hoped to live in the Korean way and asked me to give up working and stay at home to take care of the family . 