hey , Mary , what's up ?   not much . Last night I met this great guy at the bar and we had such a wonderful time that we decided to meet again tonight .   oh , that's exciting . What's this guy like ? Is he hot ?   well , I didn't think so at first . But as we started talking , I found his extremely funny and witty . I couldn't stop laughing at his jokes ! We have so much in common . We like the same teams , music , a   it seems you two are a good match . What qualities do you look for in a friend ? 