I know I'm a blabbermouth , but what do you think she should do , John ?   Honey , we're in the museum now . We're not here to discuss your coworker's love life . We're here to enjoy the great paintings by Picasso !   I know ! But it's really important to her ! Her whole life could be ruined by this man !   You're making a federal case out of it . One unhealthy love affair can't ruin anything . It could even make your life more interesting . 