Well , you know what , don ’ t do it , ‘ cause the minute you do , they lose all respect for you .   Well , it ’ s not like that . We just e-mail , it ’ s really nothing . On top of which I am definitely thinking about stopping because it ’ s getting ...   Out of hand .   Confusing . But not , because it ’ s nothing .   Where ’ d you meet him ?   Oh , listen , I can ’ t even remember . Ok , on my birthday , I wandered into over 30 rooms , for a joke , sort of and he was there , and we started chatting ...   About what ? 