Why are you so quiet ?   My girlfriend just broke up with me .   You must feel terrible now .   Yeah .   I remember my first break up . It was the worst feeling in the world . I was crying everyday for three months . And slowly , it got better . I know you'll feel better too .   You've been through this too ?   Yeah . I remember it very clearly . The pain makes it easy to remember . I know you're really hurting right now , but you know many people experience break ups .   But it hurts too much .   I know it's painful , but it's only temporary . After the pain goes away , you'll find other girls .   What if I don't want to find another girl ?   You'll change your mind . Look at everyone in the world . They all break up and move on . The faster you understand this , the quicker you will recover .   You're right .   I also know you must still have strong feelings for her , but try to think of all the bad things . You know she didn't treat you that well . Is that the person you want to spend the rest of your life with ?   Yeah . Thanks for the talk .   I'll give you a call later . We should hang out . It's good to be around people . 