In all my wedding dreams, I'm getting married to my boyfriend. I usually don't realize that we're getting married until it's already started. Then I turn to him and suggest we wait until we're ready. He agrees and we turn around and walk away. (One time we were on a boat, 2x in a church, 1x on the beach.) There is always a crowd of people around us, so I don't recognize that we are walking up the aisle until we get to the guy holding a book. I don't see him being a priest, just a guy with a book. I'm always surprised when we walk into him. It's all very casual.