(07/07/99) My brother Harry invites us to visit him. He rented a place for us to stay during our visit. This place is a terrible hovel. It is small, dirty and cramped. The toilet is a "one-holer" in a very tiny room. I need to use the toilet and when I open the door, a woman is using it. I am so shocked at this primitive place that I refuse to use the toilet and want to complain to Harry about our terrible accommodations. Mary will not allow me, saying that we are guests and it would not be nice to complain. A group of us are preparing to go somewhere. There are too many people for one car so I am asked to choose the car I want to ride in. I choose Harry' car and walk with him to the parking garage. But he is walking so fast I can't keep up with him and lose  him when he enters the garage. When I get there, I have no idea where to look for him. I search for him for a short time, then decide that my best chance to find him is to wait at the Exit gate and get him when he drives out. While waiting at the exit gate, another car pulls alongside me. Inside, are my niece Rosa and two other people. I tell them what has happened and they say they will wait with me until Harry shows up. After waiting for a short time, I am told there are several exits from this garage and maybe Harry will not use this one. In this dream, I did not see Mary, but knew she was with me.