(3/14/90)(2nd dream, between 3-6:30 am): A dream about Sam Wilder (brother-in-law). He and a blonde woman with whom he came to visit us have an affair. He says: "We're together now." That is his only explanation. She is very pretty, about 50, divorced, and has grown children. I see them go into the bedroom and start to undress to go to bed together. I am totally overwhelmed. It is so "out of character" for Sam to have an affair! I also talk with FRIEDA at one point, and she says: "Well, if he wants to have her for one night..." and shrugs, implying that it is OK. I remember asking her if we will have a wedding, since I had bought a lovely white linen dress and did not just want to wear it for one occasion....