I have a dim memory of having had a sentimental scene with a boy I have been dating off and on for some years. He's a chronic invalid, & in the dream he was regretting that he could never plan on marriage, because he wanted to marry me. Then I was discussing it with my mother - we both felt very sad about it. I told mother that a man I work with had just proposed to me, & I thought he was congenial & would make a good husband, but was not physically attractive to me, so I refused him--it was rather embarrassing. I wondered if he might have aroused me if I had ever permitted him to make love to me, & said to Mother, "But if you never try, how do you know?" Interpretation The first situation is pretty close to reality, except that I go with the boy partly because we both know that he'll not be able to marry me --I doubt if I would be interested. The second is an absurdity, rather--we carry on a bantering & meaningless office flirtation which covers a mild dislike for each other. Answers to questions 2. mildly perplexed, possibly.3. participant4. neither5. the kitchen of our house in the second part--I don't remember the first.6. no7. no