ractice of masturbation an individual can learn to develop control of their own body's orgasmic response and timing.  In partnered stimulation either partner can control their own orgasmic response and timing.  With mutual agreement either partner can similarly learn to control or enhance their partner's orgasmic response and timing.  Partner stimulation orgasm techniques referred to as expanded orgasm, extended orgasm or orgasm control can be learned and practiced for either partner to refine their control of the orgasmic response of the other.  Partners mutually choose which is in control or in response to the other.Orgasmic meditation,[29] is a mindfulness practice where the object of meditation is conscious finger to genital contact.  "OMing" is practiced in pairs, with one partner, gently holding the genitals with both hands, and that partner's index finger gently, precisely, slowly stroking the female’s clitoris specifically and with both parties placing their complete awareness