 
 <prompt> text: ```(LifeWire) -- Afta im papa bin dey diagnose wit dementia for 1996, Anthony Lazzara Jr. bin face one difficult decision: E and im wife, Gail, fit either put im papa, Anthony Lazzara Sr., for one facility, or dem fit care for am themselves.

Anthony Lazzara Jr. (right) and im wife, Gail (left), care for Anthony Lazzara Sr. for house for eight years.

Because dem no fit afford one care facility, the Lazzaras carry am go house.

Na so eight long years take start as dem dey care for the World War II veteran and onetime truck driver as e dey slowly decline -- na Gail, wey be 56 years old, dey mostly carry the burden.

She dey feed am, bathe am, and change im diapers on top daily basis while her husband, wey be truck driver, dey road.

Slowly, she talk say her marriage start to spoil.

"I no fit take my frustration out on my father-in-law," she talk. Instead, she take am out on her husband.

"We almost end up dey divorce sake of the whole matter," Anthony Jr., wey be 56 years old, talk.

Gail agree say she think to leave, "but I no fit waka comot from my father-in-law."

Two years ago, the Lazzaras finally give up. One bed show for one local Veterans Affairs facility, and the elder Lazzara enter. E dey there until April 2008, when e die for age 95.

One difficult labor of love

As the Lazzaras fit talk, the stress wey dey come from caring for one elderly parent fit pass power relationship. Chauffeuring loved ones go appointments, handling their shopping, assuming their financial burden, even just dey live under the same roof fit test even the most committed couples.

Now, provide one numbered list of answers to these questions:

1. Wetin family fit do when one member dey diagnose wit dementia?
2. Wetin the Lazzara family choose?
3. Who be the person wey diagnose wit dementia?
4. When e happen?
5. Who mostly carry the responsibility for im care?
6. How she relate to Lazzara Sr.?
7. Wetin be some of her duties?
8. Why her husband no fit help?
9. Wetin be im career?
10. Dem care for Lazzara Sr. reach im death?
11. When dem stop to care for am for house?
12. Wia e go, after that?
13. At wetin age e die?
14. For wetin year?
15. For wetin war e serve?
16. Wetin career e share with im son?
17. E affect the marriage between Gail and Anthony?
18. Dem divorce?
19. Gail and Anthony na the same age?
20. How old dem be?
21. Why Gail no leave the relationship?

Numbered answers:``` <response>: ```1. put dem for one place wey dem go dey take care of dem, or care for dem by demsef
2. care for dem for house
3. Anthony Lazzara Sr.
4. 1996
5. Gail
6. e be her father-in-law
7. She dey feed am, dey baff am and dey change hin diapers
8. e dey road
9. person wey dey drive truck
10. no
11. Two years ago
12. one local Veterans Affairs facility
13. 95
14. 2008
15. World War II
16. person wey dey drive truck
17. yes
18. no
19. yes
20. 56
21. she no fit waka commot from her father-in-law``` 