 
 <prompt> Take small time think about wetin don make you vex and wetin you really wan talk to your best friend before you yarn with dem. Think about why una dey fight fit help you clarify your feelings so you fit talk about am well with your friend. E fit also help you see if the fight wey una dey fight na because of emotions wey don pass boundary, wey fit resolve with honest discussion. Try come up with opening line to start the conversation. For example, you fit talk something like, "I just want make you know say I hate am when we dey fight like this." Write down wetin you wan talk to your best friend if you need to so you fit organize your thoughts. Practice wetin you wan talk for mirror so you fit see how you dey look and sound. Take the lead and start up the conversation about the fight with your best friend. Text, call, direct message, or ask dem in person make una meet for somewhere wey una fit talk privately so you fit dey honest and open about how you feel. A public location wey you fit see your own space, like coffee shop or mall fit be good neutral space for una to talk. You fit also choose place wey both of una share happy memories, like restaurant wey both of una like or park wey una don spend time together, to help keep the conversation positive. Getting the conversation started fit dey hard because of the emotions and frustrations between you and your best friend. Cracking joke or making offhand comment wey fit make your friend laugh fit ease the tension and help both of una start to talk about wetin cause the fight. For example, you fit start with something like irreverent to start the conversation like, "So wetin bring you here?" or "Well, this one dey awkward." Be honest and open about your feelings with your friend. Let dem know how you feel about wetin cause the fight and how fighting with dem don make you feel. Your feelings dey valid and you need to share am with your best friend so dem fit see how you don dey affected. Try talk something like, "I feel sick knowing say you and I dey fight and I no fit come talk to you about wetin dey bother me. I wan fix am." Even if the fight na because of something wey you talk or do, you still need to tell your friend how you feel about fighting with dem so dem go know say you dey care about dem. Avoid make am all about yourself. Fights between best friends dey go both ways, and your friend's feelings fit don dey hurt, too. E dey important say you listen to your best friend when dem tell you how dem feel about wetin cause the fight and how the fight with you don make dem feel. Let dem talk and pay attention to wetin dem dey yarn so you fit fully understand am and respond with your own thoughts and opinions. Try see things from their perspective. You no be the only one wey dey upset about the fight! You fit no get all the information about wetin cause the fight, so listen to your best friend when dem tell you about am. <response>: ```Think about wetin you wan yarn your best friend before you start. Ask dem make una talk for private and choose one intimate place. Use small play play to reduce the tension. Tell your best friend how e dey make you feel when una dey fight. Listen to dem when dem dey yarn how dem dey feel.``` 