 
 <prompt> If you must hide your relationship because of a difference in values -- whether religious or cultural -- seek the help of people wey don pass through similar situations. Bide time to help your parents and/or partner adjust to the situation. By surrounding yourself with caring and respectful people, you fit rise above your parents’ closed-mindedness if dem no wan change. Assure your partner say you dey care for am and say you no gree with your parents but you no wan lose your relationship with them. Build hin confidence say your parents' opinions no go fit hurt your relationship. Let am know say e dey more important pass your parent’s approval and say the secrecy na temporary. You no need to put a time limit, but e fit happen say your partner fit give you an ultimatum. No be person wan dey inside relationship wey hin partner dey shame to dey inside. Make you dey ready to choose between telling your parents or losing your partner. This one no be about who dey right or wrong, na about how you define family and your own values. Everybody go need to learn to respect and accept one another if you wan make dem dey your life. Make you strong for your own values and communicate respectfully say you no dey ready to compromise that. Hiding your relationship no suppose dey permanent. E fit take time for your parents to realize say na only you sabi wetin dey best for you. If e mean say you go lose your parents, na for them to decide. Being true to yourself na wetin dey most important for your mental, emotional and physical health. <response>: "Make sure say you dey surround yourself with people wey go support you. Support your partner. No dey take side." 