 
 <prompt> Nothing dey make guy feel special like when you show am your true self. E dey even better if you no dey show am to other people. Make you dey silly, dey strange, dey wild — anything wey you feel like! E show say you dey comfortable around am, wey go make am too lower hin guard. Timing dey important for here. While you suppose dey lower your guard once e clear say una like each other, no just start dey do your most bizarre habits immediately. E fit confuse am. Instead, introduce these things small small so both of una fit get used to each other true selves. Ironically, believing in yourself fit make your special guy feel more valued. No dey nervous or dey pressured to make your man feel special. Instead, just dey relax and dey casual. Be friendly and act like say you dey genuinely interested in wetin e dey talk, but no force yourself to laugh at joke wey you no find funny. Try dey make eye contact with am when una dey talk. Smile when e dey make you feel good. These simple gestures show am say you dey confident for your own skin and confident to love am. On the other hand, if you dey avoid eye contact, dey look your feet, or dey nervously dey hang on every word wey e talk fit give the opposite result. Guys sometimes no too sabi read other people emotions, so if you dey nervous, timid, or quiet fit make am look like say something dey wrong with am. Guys dey often dey pressured to dey act strong and hyper-confident, so if you fit take some of this burden off hin shoulder e fit appreciate am well well. For example, if person for public dey disrespect am or dey rude, you no need to just dey stand dey wait for am to handle am. Feel free to stand up for am with your words and actions. E go make am feel like say you dey ready to go out of your way to protect am, wey show how much you care about am. Guys sometimes no dey get plenty chance to express anxieties and feelings of vulnerability. Dem dey often feel pressure to dey act like say nothing dey worry dem. Dem fit even don dey teach say showing vulnerability (through fear, crying, etc.) na sign of weakness. You sabi better, so make sure say e know say you go always dey there for am. Let am know say, around you, e no need to dey strong all the time. Offering hand to hold and shoulder to cry on when things no dey go well for am fit make am feel like say e be the most special guy for this world. Some men fit no dey take every opportunity to share their fears and anxieties with you. Try no dey feel unwanted if e dey pretend say everything dey fine when e obviously no dey fine. Offering your help (even if e reject am) show say you care about am and you dey always ready to help am. Be ready to support am when e ask for your help. <response>: ```Be yourself. Be confident. Stand up for your man. Give am your support when e dey down.``` 