 
 <prompt> If you dey feel say you no sabi anything or you dey act like pikin, e fit be say you never discover your true talent. Part of growing up na to dey independent. Start by try different jobs or activities to find wetin you sabi naturally. For example, you fit volunteer for hospital and find out say you dey good with people or you fit handle difficult situations well. Dis fit make you decide to pursue career wey dey people-oriented. Studies don show say people wey dey happy with their lives na those wey discover their natural talents and pursue am. Dis one dey more important pass to choose career based on popularity or money. Since no two people dey follow the same life path, your own development go dey unique. E fit hard to understand dis one because people dey live for communities and societies wey dey get expectations and age-related milestones. For example, your society fit dey expect say you go get education, find work, and start family, for that order. Or, dem fit expect say you go dey care for family member instead of starting on your own. E fit hard to know wetin to do when social expectations dey clash with wetin you wan do with your life. Remember say research don show say those wey dey happy with their lives no be those wey choose career based on prestige. Find wetin dey make you dey act with enthusiasm and passion. Dis one go help you feel more independent and competent for your daily life. Avoid to just dey act on impulse. Instead, think about wetin dey motivate you and learn to use those abilities. For example, you fit realize say you dey passionate about teaching others. Use dis knowledge to find opportunities to use that enthusiasm. You fit tutor classmates, teach for school, or go school to become educator. Start by make list of happy situations wey you fit remember. Write down as many details about the events as you fit remember. Dis list go help you figure out wetin dey make you happy or energetic. You fit notice say you dey with the same few people. Or, maybe you dey enjoy to solve challenges. Since different things dey make different people happy, e dey important make you know wetin you dey enjoy. For example, your list fit get something like playing video games, playing drums, or painting. Dis fit make you realize say you dey happiest when you dey work with your hands. Dis one dey especially true if you be young adult wey dey rely on your parents to support you. Take steps to take care of yourself and your needs. Dis fit mean say you go get job to support yourself financially. Or, if you notice say you dey lonely, schedule time with friends to get company. Avoid to dey rely on others to take care of you and look after your needs. Part of growing up na to recognize say na you dey responsible for yourself. Once you dey support yourself, e go dey easier to make your own decisions and stand by them. While you dey grow up, others dey often make all your decisions for you, whether dem be major or minor ones. Part of becoming your own person na to dey make your own choices. You fit start with smaller choices, like which classes to sign up for for school or where you wan chop. Gradually, start to make bigger life decisions for yourself. For example, if you dey unhappy for your job, you fit decide to quit or change careers. Or, if you dey tire to dey live with your parents or roommate, you fit decide to move out on your own. <response>: Discover your talents. Recognize say your life dey unique. Find wetin dey ginger you. Think about wetin dey give you joy. Become independent. Make your own decisions. 