„Argent, a fess chequy sable and Or of three; above three and below two upright pending wheatears sable.“
The arms were granted in 1959 and show a the fess chequy. Its a combination from the arms of the County of Mark and the of the Lords of Velmede. The wheat ears symbolise die agriculture an the five hamlets in the municipality.
This image is taken from www.ngw.nl – Heraldry of the World –  an international civic heraldry site by Ralf Hartemink. http://www.ngw.nl/int/dld/w/weddinghofen.htm

Photos schöner alter Wappen Nr. 786
Wappenbuch 2 des Westf. Adels, S. 150

Wappenbuch 1 des Westf. Adels, S. 54
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