Shko te pergjigja e Dimitris, shkon poshtme te "comments" preke "All", aty esht.

po kjo esht komenti qe kam dasht gjith te lexojne:

When I read that you are Arvanites, you brought me back to my young age when I shared the same opinion as yours (not Greek feeling). I noticed that you do not feel hatred for your Albanian background, as I felt it toward Albanians in the past. I guess that you are a young person or may I am mistake, but we have something in common. Born in Monastir 1968 (today FYROM, migrate in US 1976) until my age of 17, I was proud of my (that period Yugoslavia) Slavic Macedonian origin but very similar to your grand father, my grand father spoke a language with my father and mother which was unknown for me (also my brother and sister).

Obsessed with hatred towards the Albanians was so much that I could not describe it, a state of mind that has crossed all boundaries of human reason. My friends, who were also from the same Slavic community, shared the same opinion, emotions, hatred, and I raised this emotion more loudly into my family so long until my mother stopped me. She gathered courage to bring the truth to light, my grand father name wasn’t Bogdan Petrevski, his real surname was Pjetri. The parents of my father site were a pure Orthodox Albanians, from my mother site, my grand father was an Albanian and my grand mother Armenian, an Orthodox family from Kastoria (Arvomiti). Well, I was quit shocked.

I share my story with you because in your case you and your grand grand parents has choose to be Greek, in my case my grand parents were forced to be “Slavic” origin.

What I feel about it?

An empathy for the temptations they passed through. Yet part of me feels indignation for the actions and wondering why an individual must be forced to declare himself / herself something that is not, or so it feels.

Do I feel like a Slavo Macedonian?

Not at all, neither as Albanian, more like empty person without religious or ethnic feeling. I am Canadian as citizen now, and I feel my self as Canadian (previously as an American due my family immigrate in US). After completing my studies, history and philosophy of science and philosophy of religion, the good reason for this decision is my mother who has admit the truth, disappointment was even greater when historical details are found and confirm the political and religious decisions were carried out in the past against the will of certain peoples, not only in the Balkans but throughout the world. As humans, we are a misery on the planet. Today, I feel miserable about my feelings in the past against my own genus, nowadays I do not feel so close with my genus because of the state of mind, but genetically I am. From today's angle, I would not call nationalists a nation that just tells the truth, that truth cannot change anything, nor can cause harm anyone.

Anyhow, be what you heart is telling you, no matter what the other said. Once more, I am glad to meet you and thank you for sharing your statement with me, I did to. I wish you all best.
包含语种1:English，语种2:Albanian