Yup , some of us just tend to be weaker when it comes to our own problems , stay true to yourself and what you believe in , communicate your feelings and if they don't reciprocate leave , you deserve a guy with your mindset and goels in a relationship, her comments weren't exactly and bluntly mean , they were gaslighty and toxic, after he explained himself over and over she just said , I still don't understand what's annoying you, and when explained it again , she just made fun of how he felt , thank you  , I wish you the best