Oh yes yes i do all that, i even got to take care of kids or babies like changing diapers and general care taking once in a while, they were not my kids of course, but i know that its rare and i know other guy friends who don't do that at all, as for the backup thing i meant that some women also sees getting married as a solution, while men its be succesful or you wont get absolutely nothing, even the for wedding they are expected to pay the bigger share, and lets not talk talk about how in the world people living in a third world country are still okay with making a wedding expensive