23 m , recent graduate and I'm certain future work will be draining both physically and mentally , marriage should be a partnership marital roles shouldn't be keeping a tab on who did x or didn't do y ,  it's a mutual understanding of this should be done if it's not I myself should do it , it's quiet saddening how some men lack basic life skills just because of blind reliance on women and vice versa  , that being said if you're incapable of living a clean life alone don't get married