for me, I am 21 and I have never dated, I see it as a waste of time I am focusing on myself I have made a promise to myself to not approach or talk to any girl until I am successful, I have faith In god that I would make it and I know deep inside that I will make it inchallah وأن ليس لِلإنسَانِ إلا ما سعي وأن سعيه سوف يرى