it's not about abandoning religion, older gen just doesn't know how to approach the younger gen when it comes to religion, they either tell you to fear god because it's your duty and if you ask questions they say that you're a kafir or outright call you kafir because you wear some type of clothes or listen to music or dance or smoke or talk to boys/girls, etc, try to teach the youth about the religion before telling them to fear god and before giving them nightmare about "3avab il 9br" or "li mysallich rabi y3l9ou min chwefrou" or saying to kids " don't do that it's haram" about the small stuff, give them a reason to pray, tell them that god is a loving being that loves every one of his subjects, tell them that the prophets were sent to show us the light and that our religion lead people into avoiding deseases and having inner peace by connecting to god and that praying is a way to show god that you love him, don't tell them to pray because they have to or else they go to hell, or tell them to wear something or else they go to hell, that's my opinion, I've found god after learning religion on my own, and I found out that older people are somehow gatekeeping religion by showing us a bad example, they tell you their view and their own practices and if you deviate from it they call you kafir and they shunn you from the community, people, please be curious about your own religion, please don't listen to people and read/search for interesting events that happened in our religion and listen to different views, never say that this is a fact because someone said so, but try to see both sides and learn from both of them then read the qoraan and pick what view you will acknowledge, trust me if you are a just a little curious about your religion you'll always love it