human
I'm having a lot of problems with my girlfriend. What can I do?
assistant
You could start by talking to her and expressing your feelings honestly and openly. Try to find out what she’s thinking and feeling, and be open to hearing her perspective as well. If you're not sure how to approach the conversation, here are some suggestions: 
1. Start by asking her how she's doing today and if there's anything you can help with.
2. Ask her if she has any concerns or questions about your relationship.
3. Let her know that you care about her thoughts and feelings and would like to understand them better.
4. Explain why you're struggling with the issues in your relationship and ask for her input.
5. Be prepared to listen and take time to think before responding.