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Choose somewhere quiet and wia di oda feel say e dey comfortable.Make sure say two of una get enough time to tok.If you say di wrong tin, make you no panic; no dey too hard on yoursef.Focus on di oda pesin, make eye contact, put away your phone. Give dem your full attention.Dey patient. E fit take time and plenti try-try before di pesin wey wan kill imsef go dey ready to open up.Use open qweshion wey need more dan yesno answer. Check weda you don understand.Make you no interrupt or give solution; no jump in wit your own idea about how you tink say di oda pesin dey feel.Check weda dem know how and wia dem fit get professional help. 