Below is the list of tables from the database along with their columns and datatype. Need to generate an accurate SQL query for the question.
Only use the columns present in the respective table. Only use the columns which are required to generate the SQL query. Only use table joins if required and not otherwise.

### Tables ###
TABLE: CREATE TABLE table_12828723_3 ( lost VARCHAR, try_bonus VARCHAR, points_for VARCHAR )

### Question ###
what's the loss with try bonus being 5 and points for being 390

### Accurate SQL ###

SELECT lost FROM table_12828723_3 WHERE try_bonus = "5" AND points_for = "390"