[ WP ] Browsing the web , you click on one of those links like '7 signs your spouse is cheating on you ' or '15 useless exercises you should stop doing ' and instead of some sort of generic clickbait stuff , it 's all about you ... you personally , with details and pictures .

# 1. He's gone for odd hours without telling you. 
 Shock turns to exasperation. There's a picture of me at a café. I can see where she's getting this idea. I'm there because I was hungry and it was close to where I was supposed to be. 
 
 # 2. He's being unusually quiet about his life and yours. 
 I want to tell her but I'm not sure how. I've been on autopilot these past few weeks. My problems are preventing me from thinking about hers too. I do n't mean to. I just do n't want her to find out. 
 
 # 3. There's unexplained charges on your joint account. 
 Why did n't she just ask me up front? I would have been honest. 
 
 # 4. Some strange woman is leaving him vague voicemails…and when he's with her, his face looks guilty. 
 It is n't something I have much of a desire to discuss over the phone. Where did she get this picture, anyway? Has she been following me? I suppose I do n't blame her. 
 
 # 5. He will be surprised when I serve him the divorce papers. 
 I pause, my hand hovering in midair as it cradles a cup of coffee. 
 
 I'm not cheating on her. That woman is my doctor. I've spent so long trying to make absolutely sure I'm sick. I did n't want to worry you if it was nothing, my darling, but when it turned out to be real, I was n't sure how to tell you. 
 
 I hope she'll forgive me for not telling her.
