Ok, men are simple. Mixed messages mean that "they're just not that into you." Ok, 176 pages later... the same thing. Read the product description. Save yourself some time. Do or read something productive (maybe then men will actually be into you and you won't need a book to decipher your inadequacy and failure) It sums it up nicely. Or, God forbid, watch the "Sex in the City" Episode. Cary Bradshaw probably types it on her laptop in the form of a horribly trite and insipid rhetorical question. She's a writer!!! It's cute... Buy this book with The Da Vinci Code and The South Beach Diet if you are completely retarded.