I think the author has had very bad experiences with some of the women in her church and so she now thinks every woman is out to get her man and lay a sex trap. This book was amusing and it's mercifully short but like someone else has previously said, it's not that bad in the church where people are constantly devising sex traps for eachother. And what about the men? She seems to place a ton of responsibility on the women alone. Why am I not surprised?