This is a rare, autobiographical insight into the personal experience of a Korean man as he struggles upstream in the changing cultures of Korea and America of the 20th century. I have read many Asian history books, yet rarely does a westerner have access to the personal life of an Asian, bridging life in two continents and cultures. One reads here about Joseph Ryu's upbringing in Korea, those things which remain as values to him as he flees to South Korea, seeks his education in Seoul, and moves on to America. I see America through his eyes. What an experience! His romance and marriage in America revealed deep emotions which Asians rarely speak of, particularly to westerners. I was left wanting to know even more of the world context of his life, more of his opinions at each stage, yet grateful at the opportunity to read some of the inner life of this great gentleman, and expand my understanding of life.