I read this for my Bible Study group for young adults. There were a few good chapters about the grey area of life and finding those who you are following, are at a steady pace with, and those who are following YOU. The book was terribly written and amateurish. His list of what he wanted in a future wife? I laughed SO HARD. I couldn't believe you all fell for his watered down babbling. Especially the start of the book with the letter of the daughter to her mother. I had read that about five times elsewhere. A bland start. A disappointing finish.