For all of you who are whining about Ben only liking JJ after she lost weight - here's a newsflash: SHE liked HIM because he was physically fit and attractive! The book is not saying that overweight people can't find love at all, just that they can't find it with a hottie unless the hottie is into large women. Why is that so difficult to understand? We are hardwired to admire physical attractiveness - and physically unattractive people will generally not be able to pair up with those who are, and they should not whine about it, because they are liking those people for how THEY look! It's pure hypocrisy. I had absolutely no problem with this book's take on the issue, I thought it was spot on.