This book is a well written, light read that gives remarkable insight. After reading it you will think, "well how simple". But the impact of knowing this simple but powerful message can change your relationships (sibling, love, parental) all of them can be enriched by this book. I just wish I would have read it sooner.It reminds me alot of buying a gift for someone. You don't buy the gift YOU want, you buy something they will want. That is precisely how we SHOULD show love. Show it in the way that THEY want it. I fell into the same mold as most where I would show love how I wanted it shown back, but like many relationships - he would show love to me the way he wanted . They just happen to be very different. I especially loved the quiz for you and your partner at the end. It gives a bit of insight which way each of you express love and want it expressed back.So yes I would completely reccommend this book =)