I found this book very helpful. It's pretty packed with content and descriptions of the issues that tend to come up in relationships where one or both partners has ADHD-like issues. It also gives advice about what traits to look for in a partner, if you have ADHD, to make the relationship work and avoid codependency, on the one side, and bankruptcy/chaos (on the other end of the spectrum!) The information is based on clinical experiences and lots of anecdotes make it pretty interesting to read. Warning, though: the first half of the book is pretty depressing, as the author pinpoints all the horrible things that can go wrong in a relationship with an ADHD individual. But, keep reading! The latter half begins to offer solutions and ideas for dealing with the day to day struggles.