As a SOS mother of Beth 17 and her siblings 19,12,10. I found the book to be very helpful to me as a parent and a guide to help my children.The book is easy to read and has so many good points I highlighted most of the book.I found out by reading this book that some of my fears also might be my childrens fears.There are not many books written on sibling survivors.I was so very thankful to find this book to read..I hope it helps you as much as it did me..