Renee Swindle has done an excellent job capturing the personae (Babysitter) of the Generation X group. A generation that largely devalues the morals and behaviors that would have prevented Babysister from moving in on her best friend's man.I, also, appreciated how the book did not vilify the "man".Babysitter is a vilian that we, eventually, could relate to and actually like for her humaness and sense of humor. But mostly, Babysitter was not a loser nor a victim. She was a winner who only needed to learn a few rules about how to remain a winner.I think this is a must read!