I have been with my fiance for 2 1/2 yrs and we have been engaged for almost 2. This book seems to be for the older couple and it asks some questions I don't want to remember(about both of our past relationships and shaky times we had in the beginning...ie:people who tried to break us up etc. I havent been able to fill in much of this as we are "new" in our relationship, but I did read that in the reviews-so it's my own fault.