Instead of whining about how society needs to accept Crossdressers, Lacey is out there setting an example for the rest of the Crossdressing community to follow. His book first outlines the distorted thinking that all too many Crossdressers fall into and then teaches the priciple that if you respect yourself, others will likely respect you as well. Also, he introduces the concept of ethics in regard to honesty with yourself and those around you. Throughout the book there are real life examples and techniques to ease into the mainstream of society while crossdressed. The style of the book is likely how Lacey approches life. Gentle, loving and strong.