It continues to amaze me that so many believe that cruelty and physical punishment are healthy techniques for correction. This is another tome based in hurting and punishment until control and submission are accomplished. The idea that such techniques are physically or psychologically healthy is very typical of gangs and other warmongering groups. And, to call this loving is so far removed from realty that it becomes of great concern. Too bad that Amazon doesn't have a zero (or less) rating. From a retired School Psychologist.