This movie left me feeling spiritually molested. I am not trying to be deep, but it did make me feel like I needed a shower inside, and it left me feeling a little depressed. I felt like I had to "shake it off". I am not sure why it got so many reviews that were positive. I felt it did not show the good side of marriage even close to equally all the drama and sorrow of the bad side in the film. I am married and agree that marriage can be hard sometimes, but I hope no one getting married decides to watch this beforehand because it might scare the H-E double hockey sticks out of them..... A good movie not shy of showing the good and bad marriage is "The Story of Us" with Bruce Willis & Michelle Phipher (sp?). Overall it was funny but lacked the depth of marriages subtleies and the complexities that make up a marriage.