overall i would have to say that this book has A FEW parts worth reading, but a more appropriate title would be "making stupid decisions in foreign countries". and the stories she told are too much to be true... i find it highly unlikely that francisco was just completely innocent... and she always manages to get taken advantage of by various people in her life. i do pity her for being born in such a crazy family, and the only reason i would encourage you to buy this book is to help wendy to A) somewhat pay off her maxed credit cards and B) have enough money for plenty of therapy.