Eggerichs has some sound biblical points, but the book seemed to only fit a certain kind of couple (nagging wife, passive/silent husband). As a Christian woman and counselor, I did find myself offended at some of his presumptions about women, and feel that he did have a biased view. I did not feel understood as a woman. This book is helpful for a couple where the woman is the main problem (being disrespectful and nagging), and the onus seems to be on her, wheras the man's issue seems to be much less offensive (not demonstrating love). It seems to take the personal issues of his relationship with his wife and generalize them to the public. I found Ken Nair's book "Discovering the Mind of a Woman" to be much more insightful and helpful, where the man takes the role of the servant leader and takes the first step in fostering change.