This book is OK, but its not the meat of what your looking for.This book is more based on what not to do then anything else.E.G. "Don't get into politics or talk about yourself to much, cause girls are more into talking about them selfs."Lisa Altalida really doesn't tell much of what you need to hear.When I first bought this I thought that "What better way then to get into a girls head then a girl?" But thats not the case here.Instead she pretty much offers you on what the average guy knows.Where I'm from there are a lot, and I mean a LOT of girls that are stuck up and think that their candy is way to good for everyone, so instead they get stuck with a dead end job and get knocked up by some trailer trash hick who ends up in prison or becomes a deadbeat drug addict who hangs around all the time.My advise to you is keep looking, something more advanced.