I searched all over to find this (I had one with my older kids). I don't do potty seats that require mom to empty out & clean a bowl - what's the point? We bought a regular seat that sits on the toilet and a step stool, but he was still too intimidated by them (one fall off face first and another one into the toilet didn't help). This seat is great because it gives them the step, with the handles to hold on to and uses their weight to provide stabilty. He knows the seat can't fall off since it's attached and it's so easy for him to put on the toilet himself. No mess for me, he just flushes when done. I'm getting ready to order two more for the bathrooms on the other floors of the house.