I just did not get the message this book was trying to convey. I struggled to get thru it and I rarely found an exciting page that would normally encourage me to continue reading. I wasted money on this book because it was highly rated. I often thought of a comment that a good friend of mine said, he said; " I don't care how much a book cost me, if it doesn't keep me engaged, I throw it in the trash." I thought of that comment on just about every page while reading this book. Sorry, but I must be honest.