Basically this book says that to be successful you should meditate, and have all of your love buckets filled. If this sounds like your type of plan for success, then buy the book. This book only seems to be for die hard John Gray fans, and people who have everything they thought they wanted and are not happy, or those who are trying to convince themselves that they are happy with their lot in life. Buy an Anthony Robbins' book, or one from someone else who provides practical success insights.