First, my comment to my partner was "Well, if you take any number of self-help relationship books, and add three pages about ADHD, you'll have a better help book than this one."Pros:1. It does help one to think about ADHD and relationships.2. It does help create talking points with your partner about your relationship.Cons:1. It uses pseudoscience and unproven theories of how ADHD works as some of its basis for discussion.2. It is very heavy on the belief that medication can make one with ADHD "normal". While psychopharmacological assistance for people with ADHD is good, psychological is also good, and the book tends to ignore that aspect.3. It is based on a traditional M/F married relationship.Overall, I don't know that there is anything better out there. However, this doesn't say this is good.Personally, I'd find a good book on ADHD, and a good book on relationship counseling, and read them together.