To anyone who's experienced the horror of rape, it's just that a horror. I had a messed up situation and denied what really happened for the better part of a year and half. When i came to terms with what happened to me i felt better, but there was still something wrong.I used to get angry for no reason, forget anything sexual that was playful, i would freak out. Once my boyfriend was just tickling me but he held my wrist down and i flipped!I had to read a book for pyschology class and i found this. It's become my new bible! It shows you that one, you aren't alone, and two; there are reasons why years after its happened to you that you still aren't your complete self. It helped me understand why i behaved certain ways. It gave me closure to the situation and a clear path to walk, so that i could continue to heal. I thank my lucky stars for this book, if i hadn't stumbled apon it i wouldn't be where i am today. And i still wouldn't be able to look in the mirror.