This is a egostict ramblimg, coherent only in the timeline ofrelationship. Its a voyer,s delight, a canidate for National Enquirer publication. This is not edifiying reading---it promote self (as noted by the book title), is not good readingand obcures the art of writing well. It may be a bestseller asnoted by the New York Times Book List but there are also best selling magazines next to the supermarket checkout stand.