I am a happy Mum and wife and have spent little time since my children were born thinking about my needs and wants.This book has helped me to identify very clearly and simply what I am looking for, and I now have a purpose to my life, instead of 'wandering aimlessly'.Michael explains the principles with easy to understand examples. This book is incredibly easy to read and understand which makes it extremely valuable.I recommend this book for young people to help them identify their 'ideal mate' and to enable them to set goals in all areas of their lives. And I recommend it to everyone else who has been 'living in darkness'.