This book was a page-turner and I enjoyed getting a bird's-eye view into the secret lives of well-heeled NY socialites. However, as a working parent who has hired nannies, I found that the book punctuates a sad statement about today's parenting and how we treat those who care for our cherished children. The authors make many overt and subtle comments about societal values.Yes, you will laugh at Nan's many passages but, overwhelmingly my heart went out to the child character in this family. Forget the Nanny, forget the X's, forget the endless lessons and schools...what happens with these neglected children? Remember, the story was inspired by real experiences.I like Nan's story which was at times funny in absurd way but, it was eclipsed by the sadness I felt about the way those situations are apt to turn out. You'll go home and hug your child!