I'm a first born, and i've argued with many people that parents should have an alternate way other than always having high expectations for me and be like a geni pig for the rest of the family.After reading this book, it helped me understand why i am the way i am now, and why my parents treat me the way they do, and why others became the people they are now.It helped me see things from a different perspective, and I became a less judging person and more uniderstanding because of what i know about their birth order.The Book is the best and i think everyone should have it