Tic tac toe would be a good start for a 4 year old. This game is too challenging for that age. I grew up playing board games and want my daughter to have that experience. So, I got this game for her since it has so many great reviews. The game is too challenging for her and it totally discouraged her from playing any board game! She concluded that all board games are tough to play. The recommended age is not right.I would look for more fun games that she can play with lot of people, something a little bit less challenging, creative - something like Pictionary Jr or story cubes.