This book may have been interesting pop psychology back when it was written in 1988, but anyone who reads it today and espouses its perspective on why men are the way they are is the equivalent of a member of the flat earth society. (And that's not going to get you any women.) Men, you can read this and believe it if you want to, but recognize that you're doing so only because it makes you feel better. That doesn't mean the information in it is true. If you really want to understand why men are the way they are, you'd be better off reading The Blank Slate by Steven Pinker or The Moral Animal by Robert Wright, both of which are 5-10 years old but vastly more intelligent, and accurate, than this book. Those books don't pain a pretty picture, but at least the picture they paint is not a self-delusional one. Warren's book should be reclassified as mythology or recognized as an artifact of old and discarded psychological theory.