I just heard a bit of an interview where it was said that Jennifer was estranged from her Mom. I thought I would check it out on the web.I found this book and read the excerpt. Nancy betrayed her own daughter, simple. What's in the family should stay in the family. It seems to me that Nancy shows signs of BPD, denial, feeling like a Saint, seeing things in black and white, living vicariously through her daughter, lying and believing your own lies and rewritting the past to fit your needs. I am sure if Jennifer said she would never forgive you there must have been many reasons leading up to that moment and this book and that interview the final straw for her. Sad. By the way, in what religion does God make deals? Seek help, BPD mom.