This is a great book, if you put yourself always first.Great for women who want to have the most drugged birth, pain killers galore for post - partum. no breastfeeding for breast implants compromises and nanny 24/7.Great to read at the spa before meeting your plastic surgeon who will take care of you after childbirth.It leaves the beauty of this time out.It does not honor our bodies, our ancestors that birthed for all those years before us.I am sorry but should be burned on a fire!