Yeah, it's nice and soft. Very flexible, the vibrator didnt work very well. She liked how it felt inside her but the detail was less than expected. It's uglier than most penii normally are. It's pretty girthy, very girthy. It'll take some warming up to say the least. Use plenty of water-based lube and go slow. Make sure you get either some good anti-bacterial mild soap or get some good toy cleaner for this guy. Clean it after every use. If you can, toss a condom on it as well. Id suggest the Mr Marcus cock and balls rather than buying this one.