Well, let me start off by saying that this book is very informative, however i found myself a lilttle to "cultured" for this book. This would have been a great read had i gotten it a few years back, but living life as an openly gay man for the last 3 year, I found this book thought me nothing I already knew! I do however recoment this book to any newby's out there, but do keep in mind that this book is mostly, if not wholly based on steroe types, but unfortuanetely these are stereo type that live up to what most of us are. So read up, enjoy, yet keep an open mind!