They claim after reading the book or attending their divorce seminars you must feel like you have climbed the mountain of growth. That can't happend so easy. It hurts towards the end of the book when they make you feel like you are expected to have accomplished some major breakthroughs if you did the tests at the end of chapters. I wish it was so easy Mr. Bruce.The book might be worht reading, but beware of those rip off seminars.