Men and women have equal sex drives,deal with it!What makes usdifferent is the constant shaming women get when they do indeedact sexual.If you have the word "slut" hanging over your headconstantly it just might make you want to cling to romance in order to appear less sexual than a man.Gray generalizes,and notonly generalizes but makes women out to be sexless objects thereto please men and not themselves.He writes as though he has a great fear of men and women beingequal in sex drive.His mysogamist views of women aredisgusting!In short what he says is,the woman only has to look nice for the man,and the man has to romance,begg and trick women intobed because women in his mind really don't want or need sex.