This is the only book currently in print that actually addresses the feelings, thoughts and worries of adults children of divorce - not adults whose parents divorced when they were children, but adults whose parents divorced when they were adults. It's a completely different issue for those of us with parents who split after we've reached adulthood, and many people don't seem to understand how much we are affected. This is a book I recommend for adult children of divorce, their parents, spouses and significant others, friends, and anybody else who ever told an adult whose parents just split up to "just get over it already, it doesn't affect you." Read this and you will not only understand that it certainly does affect us, but also how and why.