If you want to change your life, forget the naysayers. First, to truly understand and take in the information on this DVD, you have to watch it more than once. Secondly, the most important piece of information in the whole movie is to not only visualize what you want, but to FEEL as if you already have it. There is the rub!! If it is not working for you, watch it again until you get it right. People never really question why there is so much negativity in their lives and how they bring things about through their own negative thoughts. If they truly understood this, there lives would change. Using the secret, I have brought into my life my soul mate, a home, a car and a job. Just like anything else, it works if you follow the steps correctly. I don't know anyone who could not benefit from this DVD or anyone who does not want more happiness and joy in their lives.