This is a terrible book, and as a guy living in the 21st century, I think it is demeaning to both men and women; not only does the 'new age' flavor of it turn the idea of male and female behavior into something that can only be figured out by people in touch with their 'vibes', but it doesn't talk about culture, philosophy or the current perceptions of gender, gender roles - or how those perceptions affect how men should act.