This is one of those books you might find down on the bottom shelf in a dusty corner of your local Christian bookstore (which is where it should stay, in my opinion). Had I known this was so Christian-based, I never would have bought it. It basically says that if you've suffered rejection, just turn to Christ and POOF! all your problems and bad feelings will magically disappear. This was not what I expected. I expected some in-depth therapeutic help from it; not a sermon. I was definitely turned off by the author's obvious bias against secular humanism. It's been my experience that secular humanists are far nicer and less judgemental than the average fundamentalist Christian (and this author is definitely a fundamentalist Christian). I also objected to his jibes against the women's movement, education, the arts. Phyllis Schlafly and other extreme right-wingers would love this book. At least I bought a used copy, so I didn't waste much money on it.