"What She Wants Is Not What She Says" and "Her Complaint Is Content-Free" are but two of the chapter titles of this book. (Don't forget "Ejaculation Should Be Converted or Consciously Chosen" and "Ejaculate Up the Spine," either.) It's not all woo-woo: there is probably some truth to some of the author's assertions -- but really, I think this book is squarely aimed at men like the author, who are after the sort of relationship that just may not be possible. Probably great for people who have liked his other books, likeThe Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover, but really not so much so for those who think that, though men and women are different, they are still the same species. To be fair, this *is* billed as a *spiritual* guide, and sexual desire makes an appearance in the subtitle, as well. But it's just not my style. Check out some sample pages before buying, at least.