Stan Toler's book "The Secret Blend: A Modern Parable of Personal Success" is an amazing book on relationships! Stan moves you from the kind of relationships that are "on the surface" to the kind of relationships that are "deep and meaningful" with those around you. Knowing Stan for several years now, I can truly say that he models the very type of relationship he writes about in this book. If you want to improve your relationship with others, I highly recommend that you read "The Secret Blend" as soon as possible!