because Arthur Jeon writes of LIVING. Teaching that it is best to live - and, more importantly, love - in the present applies to every aspect of life. Though there is much wisdom in these pages on how to deal with love relationships at every stage, the most important is how one lives as an individual. Acknowledging that everyone stumbles and runs into walls (not always of one's own making), the important thing is to learn one's lessons, bless it and proceed on the journey.