Had to complete this workbook per our Pastor's request and I found it to be a complete, mind numbing waste of time. I have nothing against the Christian aspect, just the general layout and all the, what I thought, ridiculous questions. Maybe my now husband and I are just that mature/practical in our thinking - because most of the categories this book covered were things that we had already discussed/figured out ourselves. The only way I feel this workbook would help is if you knew almost nothing about your partner/never communicated properly with your partner. It was so redundant and a frustrating waste of time in my opinion.