This is a starkly honest, almost poetically written, book that made me both cringe and laugh. It will be most enjoyed by a very cerebral reader who has experienced some disappointment in birth or mothering an infant (e.g., postpartum depression, inability to breastfeed, unexpected C-section). I would not recommend it for pregnant women or cheerful people who are intent on only seeing the best in a situation. This is mothering at its worst, though infused with love. The section on men who blow the cover on women who hide the difficulties in mothering is very humorous and worth reading. For those who wonder why the author couldn't cope better, this section describes the sort of conspiracy among mothers that prevents total honesty. At any rate, it's very well-written and will elicit nods of recognition and relief from those who've "been there." You know who you are.