I love to read and so does my husband, however, I think that the format of a book is very important. This book is laid out with very tiny print that is crammed together and reminds me of an encyclopedia, or more like the fine print on a credit card offer. To me it is also very "wordy." Don't get me wrong, I can read wordy and understand it, but when you are having sex problems, you don't necessarily want to feel like you are reading an encyclopedia or are enrolled in a college class. To me, you want to feel like a close friend is talking to you about a very intimate sensitive subject. I bought a lot of books and this one is NOT one of the ones that helped us. Please see my other reviews for books that actually helped to create a change in our marriage.I would recommend "The Sex Starved Marriage" instead of this book if there is one spouse less interested in sex than the other.