i first saw this book at the airport in dallas and it caught my eye. I really didn't want to buy a hardcover book and cart it around for a week on my trip, so i left the book store. i couldn't stop thinking about it though and ended up going back and buying it. I read the book on my trip and couldn't put it down. i worked through a lot of stuff and cried and related to everything. i went on the silent retreat Cheryl went to and it was amazing. i've bought the book for four of my friends and they have in turn bought it for their friends. It may connect with you and if it does you will be rewarded. Go for it! Learn how to make the most of your life.