This book looks as if it went to publishing without editing. I have read a lot psychology and find the subject interesting. I am educated - professional engineer and attorney. I usually understand what I am reading. But this book forced me to re-read sentences and paragraphs because I could not understand what the authors were saying. Often I just moved on. Either the authors were not sure themselves or I just couldn't get it. But two things were clear, the book is written almost exclusively in the passive voice with high-sounding amorphous words that seem to be intended to leave you either in awe or just completely frustrated. It reads like a first draft that went straight to publishing. My wife found reading it painful at best and she never made it through. The authors also seemed little concerned about citing their authority. Do they just make this stuff up? I felt the advice was unreliable.