I was surprised that a man could write a book like this. The author understands what a woman's feelings mean to her. He also understands that most men just don't get it when it comes to our feelings. The surprise is that there are things that women just don't get about men. His book is full of eye opening material on how men see women and how men can take a different meaning from the one we meant. I found the exercises very helpful in getting me to understand how men see women and where they look for our meanings. I plan to keep doing his exercises from time to time because they help me to see things from a male point of view and not just my own.