Hands down, the best book written on how to have a great relationship and how to rescue one that is falling apart. It will help you figure out if you want to stay in your relationship and if this person is for you. It will help you understand youself better and what you do to sabotage your relatonships.Dr phil gets right down to the nitty gritty. The relationship myths and relationship values are something everyone should read. I was impressed how this book helped me in my 23rd year of marriage. It saved me from divorce.