Product is AMAZING. I was a bit scared at first because its large in width and scary looking, to me at least. but once in you, OMG is about all I can say. It only took 2 seconds to do its job. I was very satisfied as many other women have said to have been. I read the reviews before buying and was unsure because of the lower stars and reviews but Im glad I bought it. The low reviews talk about it being big and hard. Well it is big but not ridiculously big. But big is good. And its not jelly soft or jelly flexible but its not a stick either. If you pushed on it, it would give a bit. Not a whole lot but enough. Men get just as hard when in the moment so whats the difference, other than that this thing is heaven. I would rank this as better than any I have tried before so far. The seller was also early in delivery which was nice. No complaints here what so ever.