I've read several books written by Dr. Dobson. I picked this title hoping to be enlightened. As a single mother of an almost teenage son, this book is a God send. It has given me scientific understanding of the intricate way my son thinks. It has shown me how to appreciate my child. This book has also shown me how important it is for me to celebrate my son's masculinity. Femininity may be more graceful, polite, and serene, but it is not BETTER than masculinity. Dr. Dobson has eloquently made it "OK" to be a masculine male in this society.