I bought this bag thinking that it was unisex enough for myself and my husband to use. I loved the changing pad and all the room inside. However, my son is only 4 months old now and the handle is beginning to rip. I tried to sew it back together but I can't get the needle through the thick material and velcro. I have read several reviews that rave about the bag.....I only wish I had one of theirs. I use this bag maybe twice a week and it's already falling apart. If you do decide on this bag, I hope you have better luck with it than I did.