I had been neglected by my own father who was a "narcissist". I felt responsible for this and now I know it's his problem not mine. I feel so much better.A girl had been manipulating me, guess what? She was a Histrionic one! I was shocked when I saw how similar to the book she was, and how stupid I had been.Finally, I noticed I was a passive-agressive/people pleaser SOB who never confronted anyone/anything. Now I know my flaws and where to work on. No amount of prayers, or church goings (which I had infact done) would solve my problem. WE are the ones who can do something about it, as long as we have the correct tools to do so, and Emotional Vampires, without a shadow of a doubt, provides them.It's downright scary/irritating how oblivious we can be of ourselves (weaknesses), and how easily manipulated we are, when not aware of this.If you liked the concept of personality disorders you will probably dig this one: Personality Disorders in Modern Life - Theodore Millon