Scenes from a sistah, made me think hard and longabout my relationship with my girlfriends. If I'mreally being a true sistah-friend or not. NOT wasthe answer, I am often time so concerned about hurting their feelings, that I would just sat backand let them make on-coming, can't-stop, don't know what to do mistakes. Reading this book, hasallowed me to be more open and true with my friends, Reesy style is not my style, but her reason reasons for being real are mines. Thanks,Lolita girl for being real, at least I don't bitemy tongue as much, but I am still caring, and having a man by my side is not that important anymore...please write again SOON