Wow...when I read the other reviews, before purchasing this item, I guess I didn't believe them when they said it was big lol. It be big! lol Not that that is a bad thing. :) Just make sure you are either revved up before use or that you have some lub or else you will not get it in lol. Also it really does feel like the real deal...if it was as warm as flesh it would be spot on. I'd give it 5 stars if only there was some vibration action included. I am thinking you can get a little bullet vibrator and place it against the underside of the suction cup and get some zing that way.