Throughout the book the author does not treat the subject with honesty. A few readers may benefit, if they read carefully.Example 1. The author tells the reader:"Kids are worth it! I'm sure you believe this, too, because I know you're not in parenting for the money."Presumptious! Has she checked ..., etc.Example 2. In chapter nine the author answers the question, what do you do when your child calls you from jail along these lines: You let him/her know that you support him/her, but you leave everything up to him/her, including paying for the lawyer, exercise your backbone, etc. Correct answer: You ask first, what happened! She makes it appear any child that is arrested is arrested for good reason.