i guess i should have read the reviews before buying this book. i thought it was a relationship book but when i got it i realized the entire book is about male circumcision. and the book was written by a woman. i read it all in one night because its very small. i found the concept interesting but i felt the author was a little extreme with her examples. i did get the point and it made me reconsider if i would give my own son circumcision. but this is definitely not the book i thought i was buying.