I also decided to read this book before giving it to my son, and I'm glad that I didn't give it to him. First, the language is off (the author is Austrailian) and an American Aspie will not be comfortable reading these 'different words'. Second, I don't know any Aspie child who has such a 'understanding' friend. I was a little scared thinking that my child would want me to find this kid for him. It portrayed a relationship that just isn't real. A very dangerous thing for our children.I won't be giving this book to my son, and I really don't know why I still have it.Another reviewer suggested that this book might be useful for students. I would have to agree with that statement.