I looked for a lot of books to help me with my children's fighting, and this one gave me the most down-to-earth and practical advice. It's written in a very easy to read style, and yet it also covers some very smart ideas. Lots of personal anecdotes that have helped me with the most common fights like "toy wars" and all those annoying arguments to get my attention. It also helped me teach my boys (ages 5 and 7) important skills so they can get along with classmates and friends when I'm not around.