I have read this book twice at different times in my life and both times, it is like a good swift kick in the butt. Every woman should read this, unless you are already living the gutsy life! I think all of us are hindered by what we think is "good" or right or how we are expected to act.The easiest way I can put this is to recommend you think back to before you cared about what people thought, when you were between the ages of 8 and 14, what was your personality like? that is your true self. Kate White helps you to find your true self (which is usually not a good girl!) and to become the person that you were meant to be. Stop being a yes girl, stop being a push over, say what you want, how you want and when you want it and take control of your life. Do not waste any more time on worrying about other people, in other words, Kate will help you to have the "balls" to be the gutsy girl that you know you are!