Though my fiancee isn't a religious person, he's not Jewish. But we are having a "Jewish" wedding. In her book, Anita Diamant dismisses such relationships and marriages in a rather disparaging way. She seems to think that if you're not both Jewish, the other had better convert (like *her* husband did.) I don't like the tone of this book at all. It is chock-full of fabulous facts but it talks to the reader in a holier-than-thou tone that I, for one, can't stand.