I have read this book and I think this book and others like this one are pure garbage. No one man can predict what other men are thinking about women. Mr. Nasheed has not been with every woman in the world to make these generalized statements. Any woman who reads these sort of "how to find a man" books is truly sad. Work within yourself to find what factors are preventing you from finding true happiness with the opposite sex. There are no magic answers to finding a man, when it's meant to be it just "happens". So what if a woman wears blue and pink weaves, does that mean that she does not deserve happiness? She may just be showcasing her creative side. It may not be my personal taste but it doesn't make her any less a person who deserves love. But I will say that the book was entertaining at best, there were parts that were truly funny.