Is is rare that a man will openly discuss the subject of intimacy; and even more rare that he will openly discuss his personal struggles and fears of intimacy. This book is rare, indeed; as a successful young man approaches his father, to find and confront the underlying source of his incredible struggle, fear, and pain. I was mesmarized by the work of this first time author, and the simplicity and intelligence of his writing. The story was personally engaging, vivid, and real. I say, "Get this book into the hands of every man--and woman--in America!" They will read it.