This is a fine book if there is a good deal of conflict in a divorce; however, there is little attention given to context and a huge attention given to kids. Kids these days are socially constructed to live with entitlement and have become weak in dealing with reality. The book advises more of the same. Parents in real conflict need a psych evaluation done on both homes and both parents, or let the court honor 50:50 parental time. The book can be helpful, if you can read through the generalizations and canned prescriptions.