I picked this up on a promo day, mostly for amusement. (Also because it has Slayer in the title.)I barely got past the part where she's explaining where going to Thanksgiving dinner and fixing her car is part of the "game". Back when I was dating, these were things I did as part of a relationship that I wanted to go somewhere, not as part of a game. I would never invite any woman to go to a holiday dinner with family unless I thought there was a chance of the relationship going somewhere, and I suspect most men are like that.You could probably boil Ms. T's definition of "player" into a simple description: "A player is a guy who dated me but never proposed." Sometimes relationships just don't happen for whatever reason, and that does not mean you were played.