My girlfriend gave me this book for Hanukkah, saying she loved it and it had a really sexy Jewish guy in it. And it did, bless the writer's heart! Middle-aged Jewish sexy guy even..... it may just be the season, but I found this book to be the most joyful bit of sex-writing that I have ever read. I see other comments here that people read it twice right away, and so will I, because I'm sure I missed thinmgs. This book is just ...glorious in its inspiration, sexiness, and the ability to share the parts of it with a woman.