Ming Tan has written a book that offers very little insight on the subject matter. Most of the content seemed to be common sense almost anyone who has dated women of any race would already know. Furthermore, what little new information she does provide is repeated over and over. That, combined with innumerable quotations from random surveys, makes this book into a lengthy and boring read.I couldn't stop shaking my head while reading, knowing what a waste of time and money it was.