this book basically says it's ok to chase a man, and it wouldn't be a bad idea to start sleeping with him before you are in an exclusive relationship. you should hit on the man to he doesn't have to risk rejection himself. if you are a natual born floozy - then this will hit home. if you have a sense of tradition whatsoever, know what real romance is about, know your worth - it will nauseate you.i found a few pointers in the very beginning to be true, but also pretty obvious - dating is somewhat of a numbers game etc.