I found this book to be of great comfort! I thought I was losing my mind and acting completely irrationally over a man/relationship. When I read this book I realized I had plenty of company and that what I was experiencing was actually "normal" emotions. After what was the most devastating relationship/breakup of my life, four months later, I find myself so much happier without him. Now that I am on the outside looking in, I wonder why I didn't get out of that relationship sooner. I may not know what I want in the next man, but I know what I don't want!