I dont believe this book is very realistic or pratical. For some that are sheltered and have a good life going for them. For those that have found the one just like Mr. Harris did in his new book (kinda shady). One minute he is bashing dating and look he is now married ladies and gentlemen! Give me someone who is has been screwed over doing it the right way! Mr. Harris is inexperienced and has no credibility. The author has many good points, but ones that do not stand up against eaxh individual situation with each individual's unique lives.